1. TO BE RELAXED ON THE FIRST DATE DO SOME PAMPERING
Getting pampered is the best way to relieve all your stress and make you feel like a whole new woman. Set up an appointment at one of your top salons to get a facial, or your nails done. You can even do your own facial and paint your own nails if you are on a budget. The goal is to just feel relaxed during the day so you don't freak out about your date.
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2. GET YOUR HAIR DONE
Most girls get their hair done for special events, so why not get your hair done for a first date? Now I am not talking about getting your hair done all fancy like you are going to a wedding, but something casual, bouncy, cool, and sassy that will make your outfit standout!
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3. PUT TOGETHER A STYLISH AND GLAMOROUS OUTFIT FOR YOUR DATE
On your first date not only do you want to have your hair done in a nice way, but you also want to choose a great outfit for your date as well. If you are going to a restaurant with a bar, then I suggest that you do a nice skirt, or one with sparkles and a nice tank.
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If you are going to a casual lunch, or doing an outdoor activity then I suggest you wear jeans and a nice simple top. Your outfit depends on the type of date you are going on and in order to know which outfit is appropriate remember to ask the person you are going out with.
4. IF YOU WANT TO KNOW INFORMATION ABOUT HIM BEFORE THE DATE, ASK HIM YOURSELF DON'T HAVE YOUR FRIENDS, AND ETC. DO YOUR DIRTY WORK
When you go on your first date of course you want to know information about who you are meeting, but you should be brave enough to ask him yourself. Don't ever have your friends do like a behind the scenes profile on the guy because your date will go terrible.
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On the first date you want to make sure that you get to know a little bit about the person by asking them simple questions like did they go to college, what are their favorite hobbies,and etc. It is always a great idea to ask these type of questions because you can find out if you have some things in common and they are also great ice breakers.
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6. TRY AND HELP TO PAY FOR THE DATE
On a first date it is important to at least try and help pay for the date. Even though most women think that men should pay for the date, the man will have a higher amount of respect for you if you offer to help pay for the lunch, or dinner.
7. GIVE THE PERSON YOU ARE ON A DATE WITH FEEDBACK ABOUT HOW YOU FELT DURING THE DATE
If you had a great time on your date, tell him that. If he feels the same way, he will most likely ask you if you would like to go on a second date with him. On the second date you can get to know him even more, which can lead into a possible relationship.
8. TRY NOT TO KISS ON A FIRST DATE, UNLESS HE GOES IN FOR ONE
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On a first date you want to take things slow and by that I mean try not to kiss the person after the lunch or dinner you had with them. Now if you really like the person and he goes in for a kiss, then by all means feel free to kiss them back. RULE: MAKE SURE THAT IT IS A SIMPLE KISS AFTER THE DATE.
9. DON'T CONTACT HIM AFTER THE FIRST DATE
After the first the date you will probably have an urge to contact him, but give it some time. Let him reach out to you. Don't sit by your phone waiting hours for a phone call, and then verbally debating in your mind if you should call or not.
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Some men like a woman to take charge, but most men want to relax after a date and then call you like the next day. If you call him a lot of times, he will think you are a weirdo and not hang out with you again.
10. GOSSIP WITH YOUR FRIENDS ABOUT THE DATE
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After conquering your first date, gossip with your best friends about it. Tell your friends the activity that you did and etc. They will be happy for you and excited to eventually meet the person when the time is right.
Hope these tips help you to have a successful first date!
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